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As a stay-at-home mom to a toddler and a new writer, I’m struggling to learn two new jobs at once.  In these times of recession and renewal, writing has helped me de-stress after long days filled with, ‘No, you can’t play with Mommie’s blackberry’ and trying to sneak in much sought after naps in the afternoon.  Yet, I fear I still need to hone my passion into a better craft.  If you’re an aspiring scribe, or even a seasoned veteran who wants to freshen up, below are a few workshops and conferences that might pique your  interest:

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Ali Fedotowsky has become a household name since first appearing on “The Bachelor” last season vying for Jake Pavelka’s heart.  Her most infamous moment being her ongoing bickering with Bachelor winner Vienna and then deciding to leave the show, choosing her job at Facebook over love.   ABC has chosen her as this season’s ‘Bachelorette, and she’s not taking any chances!  Fedotowsky has packed up everything, quit her job, and moved in with her married friends in New York.  If you’d like to catch a sneak peek of the season, click here: Bachelorette.

From the online buzz, it appears that everyone wants to share their opinion to help Ali Fedotowsky make some awesome life choices.  Check out what The Huffington Post offers in the way of great tips and advice for the Bachelorette to prepare her this time around.  The Bachelorette 2010 is to be full of drama, rumors, and excitement on the show as well as off.

For a complete rundown of the men this season, you can watch the video above or click here for a complete listing and brief bio’s of the 25 hunks.

Tune in tonight on ABC from 9pm to 11pm EDT.

The New York Book Week is running from May 25-May 27, 2010.   Julie Spira will be the first of nine authors speaking in the, “Meet the Author” series beginning on the 25^th at 1:00 pm  in the New Amsterdam Library.  She’ll be reading from her new book, ‘The Perils of Cyberdating,” a memoir that details her online dating stories and provides tips and advice for the reader.  After each reading from the author, there will be a book signing for the audience.

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Friday May 21, 2010 Lori and Drew’s ‘Cyber Love Story’ is being featured in Julie Spira’s ‘Cyberdating Love Stories of the Week.’

Special thank you to Julie Spira, for featuring my love story!

On May 16, 2010, Ashley Olsen, a major player in the ’80s sitcom, Full House, and boyfriend, Justin Bartha, from ‘The Hangover,’ were among the passengers of a United flight, from New York to LA, forced to make an emergency landing at Dulles International Airport in Washington D.C.  after a cockpit fire broke out.  Fortunately, for everyone, there were no injuries reported, and the flames were extinguished.

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Here is an article that appeared in Match.com’s Happen Magazine on May 18th which highlights better ways for singles to post their online dating photos.  If you’re having trouble choosing the perfect picture, or maybe you’ve considered leaving your mug out all together, this article will provide you with some great tips and advice.

Thanks to the writer of this article, Debra Kent for including and quoting me in this informative piece!

Photo courtesy of People Magazine

Earlier this year, Sandra Bullock made headlines for her first Oscar win for the box office hit, ‘The Blind Side’ but unfortunately this announcement was short-lived when her soon-to-be ex-husband, Jesse James (Monster Garage) overpowered her success with the secret that he had been having an affair with a tattoo covered model, Michelle McGee.

Sandra graces the covers again this week with the world exclusive news that she has adopted a son, Louis who was born in New Orleans 3 1/2 months ago.  This report comes in just hours after the announcement that she filed for divorce from James.  What an incredible public relations strategy and great way to bring Sandra back into the spotlight.  She’ll now join the 13.7 million single parents in the United States.

If you’re a single mother or father, like Bullock, dating may be the furthest thing from your mind.  However, there will come a time when you’ll want to get back out there and meet someone new.  Following are some tips to help you succeed:

In the Beginning: Being a single parent can be tough.  You need to get settled both mentally and physically before you can think about dating again.  Remember, you’ll be tackling more responsibilities between work, school, daycare, and extra-curricular activities.  Right now, it’s your children who need you the most.

When Things Have Settled: Once you feel confident and in a routine with your life and children, then and only then should you consider meeting someone new.  There are many options for single parents looking to meet their soulmates including introductions through friends, family, at your child’s school or online.  Feel free to dabble for a while before you settle on one person.

Time for Romance: Months, even a year has passed and you’ve made the decision to settle down again.  Give up that “list” you may be carrying around in your head detailing all of the things you’re looking for in a perfect partner.   Instead,  enjoy the process.   Go out and date several people you’d normally overlook.  It’s time for you to try something new.

Dating as a single parent can be hard to juggle but when the timing is right it will happen naturally.  If you’d like more tips check out my article, Step Up to the Plate and Get Your Game on Again.

For more information on Bullock, the adoption and divorce, pick up the new issue of People magazine on newsstands Friday.